Matthew 5:5
Words change meaning over time. Consider when you go to McDonald’s and the employee asks “Can I help you?” If I am in a playful mood I will say “You look perfectly able to me.” Of course, they generally laugh but have no idea what I am talking about. The word “can” used to mean able to do something. Now it is used as “may” a word of permission. Which shows that the usage of a term can morph to something else over time. I have chosen the word gentle as the New American Standard translates it as opposed to other translations for Matthew 5;5 which render the word “meek”. Meek according to dictionary.com has as it’s first usage humbly patient or docile, as under provocation from others. The second is just as bad–overly submissive or compliant, spiritless, tame. This is certainly not the description of a worker Jesus is describing. Rather a mild and friendly disposition or a gentle person is what is meant. It also includes the idea of a strong person who is able to be accommodating to others. I have chosen gentle because you get the picture of a worker who is nice or friendly.
This kind of worker would not arbitrarily nor on the gossip of another employee speak harshly or criticize them. Yet I have found myself caught in that trap. Once the words leave the mouth, you cannot take them back. I knew I had sinned as soon as I opened my mouth. It takes a long time before working relations can be restored to some level of friendliness. The friendly worker treats all as friends. After all Jesus was the friend of sinners. The friendly worker is gentle with others, their concerns, their fears, their hopes, their desires and does not treat them harshly or push them around.
Father grant that we would always seek to be gentle and friendly to those we work with. Keep us conscious of our tongue and it’s power to hurt and to heal. May we use it to heal and encourage others. Amen